As I said before, sex in Islamic culture has spiritual value and Islam strictly forbid adultery. In Islamic way of life, sex is must perform with a spirit to satisfy our mates. Men are forbid to pull out their penis before the woman orgasm. Women are also had the same role. Due to the mutual obligation, sex must never be performed in any harsh atmosphere. Men or women must also never force their mates to have sex and it must be done with full love.
As I said before, Islam governs every single aspect in life, including sex. The prophet Muhammad regarding this teach us to perform proper foreplay before doing the main course. In the other hand, anal sex that is common to the Arabian before Islam came has became forbidden in Islamic way of life. This is due to the danger that may happen in having anal sex (because anus is not as clean as vagina).
Before having sex, both man and woman must first pray to Allah, so that the activity they about to do will bring peace to them and the child that will born will be a good child. After praying, follows the foreplay. Some say that the pray is can be done right before the main course. The praying activities it self is can be perform while having foreplay. When both party are ready and fully aroused then the main course can be perform.
Remember that sex is must be perform with spirit of love. Both party must love each other and must never had any intentions to hurt each other by having sex. We humans are different with animals. We are more noble then animals. While they have sex with a pure lust as fuel, we as human must put a meaning in sexual intercourse. Feeling of love and caring in sexual intercourse is a must because the main goal in sex is to satisfy our mate and making the love between husband and wife became deeper so that it can gives a state of peace in our mind and in the end life feels better.
The prophet teaches us to put rhythms in one’s sex life so that it will never be boring. The rhythm in this case is both in bed and out bed. In bed means on the art of making out, and out bed means in the art of treating our mate. One must have fully aware that the person that having sex with is the person in this life that one loved. This body is the tool to express this deep feeling of loving. One must understand this and put it mind before performing sexual intercourse in a more spiritual state.
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